My cousin, an avid couponer who has diapered her babies in disposable diapers for almost NO money (hi Tiffany!) raised a really great point on my site, suggesting that perhaps cloth diaperers are not completely upfront about the costs of cloth diapering a baby. We tend to focus so much on the cost of cloth diapers in general, that we leave out the extra fluff (no FLUFF pun intended!) of things like wet bags, pail liners, etc. So I want to outline some possible extra costs of cloth diapering that may not be included in cloth diaper estimates.
Now listen, I know this probably isn’t 100% accurate (and anyone who claims their estimates ARE accurate…don’t trust because it is all varied). Just know that for every number I did, I did some hunting around (NOT just on Cloth Diaper websites that would have a bias). I wanted to create as honest of figures as possible because, to be frank, my overall mission is to save people money. Please feel free to comment with some thoughts on this, but please also don’t nitpick my estimates as though I am chiseling them in stone! I didn’t have an agenda behind what I did. I was honest with myself with the numbers in trying to remove my own personal bias. In fact, what I found really surprised me…
For Cloth Diapers:
You can grab a yard of fabric at a store, extra fleece from making a blanket, or buy wipes. My personal favorite are my Thirsties Fab wipes and my Itti Bitti wipes, both of which I got for free by saving up my Swagbucks. You may also spend money on diaper wipe solution, although some people just use water or make their own solution by adding a drop of essential oil or baby soap.
For disposable diapers:
You can buy disposable wipes for as low as .03 each (I am using what The Krazy Coupon Lady considers a good deal). That is (so very roughly!) $400 or Amazon has them not on sale for .07 each, which is roughly $600.
Cost: $400-$600 each
Finding the Right Diaper
You may buy a diaper and it just didn’t work for your baby. Perhaps it wasn’t absorbent, there were leaks, etc. However, this may not happen at all. You may use the statistics on diapers that are sorted by baby type here to up the odds of you getting the best diaper for your baby. If not, then you may have to invest in new diapers. Avoid this cost pitfall by using the stats here, as well as not buying 20 of the same diaper.
Cost: FREE – $100.
I actually encountered this, big time. My son is very sensitive to disposables (and my daughter was one of the ones burned by the transition to Pampers DryMax) and we also found that certain brands just didn’t work. Or maybe the kid grew out of a size a little early.
Cost: FREE – $60
For Cloth Diaperers
A month ago, I would have told you that this is a must, but I actually have been cloth diapering without a diaper sprayer in this new place and it isn’t that bad. I just do the dunk and swish, but am also using the Cloth Diaper Butler for soaking. I do use gloves though. Some people do buy liners to make things less messy.
Cost: FREE – $80
For Cloth Diaperers:
It is important to get a cloth diaper safe cream. And I am going to assume a baby needs about 2 of these from birth to potty training. There are many extra variables here to consider, like if a baby gets extra rashes in disposables (as mine does) or perhaps a baby gets extra rashes in cloth while someone is trying to alter their washing routine. So I will consider these as equals here:
For disposable diaperers:
Desitin is a great medicated one to use, but I know in my experience I was asked to top that off with something that had a barrier, such as Vaseline.
For Cloth Diaperers
Some people are simple, they just use a trash can that they got for a couple of bucks. But I generally recommend two wet bags (one for out and about, one for at home). In an ideal world, I would recommend three. One for out and about and two for at home (so you have one to put stuff in while stuff is washing).
For Disposable diaperers
People with disposable diapers can just toss the diapers, although some people like to have something like the Arm and Hammer deodorizer bags for out and about. So that is a possible hidden cost of disposable diapers. People would also buy a diaper pail and a trash bag or a bag specific to that diaper pail. Buying at Costco, regular trash bags is .10 per bag. Some diaper pail specific ones, like the Armand Hammer bag, are .70 per bag. I figure you go through two a week (roughly), so for two years I am calculating.
Sometimes a diaper just isn’t good enough as is, especially at night. So some people have to buy extra inserts (my favorite? The Knickernappies SuperDo), or you can just stack up two inserts. I frequently just stack two microfiber inserts. But it is a cost worth noting.
Cost: FREE – $30
For Cloth Diapers
I have researched several different websites, including various utilities websites, and have come to the conclusion that there isn’t a clear cut estimate. The closest I have been able to get through my own calculations is that you should plan for up to $100 in washing energy/water costs, but I want to overshoot that a bit because I think it could be low. You may also take into account costs of buying cloth diaper safe detergents (although you know me, I think Tide does just fine). So to be totally basic you hand wash with a non cloth diaper safe detergent. To splurge you get the absolute top of the line cloth diapering detergent and you also may strip a lot. Those with hard water and front loaders may expect to spend more money cloth diapering as they may have to strip diapers more often. It may also cost some money to try and figure out the right laundry routine. Some people buy drying racks for line drying–I personally use hangers from around the house, but I want to account for those racks as well.
Obviously you don’t need to wash disposable diapers, BUT, I do want to briefly make note of the fact that you may need to wash out some poopsplosions (you know, the up the back poop messes that happen with disposables). I know my friends who use disposables encounter this a lot. But I’d be pushing it if I said this were a huge expense to wash, but since I am trying to account for ALL hidden costs, I am going to budget a bit here for the cost of laundering this.
Cost to Transport Diapers
For Cloth Diapers
Cloth diapers are generally sold online, so there may be some shipping costs if a person is buying from there, but many online retailers have free shipping or free shipping with a certain amount. To see who has free shipping, you can type in “free shipping” at www.clothdiaperretailers.com to see who has those deals.
Cost: FREE – $20
I have to tell you that I have had at least 4 instances (in the 4 months I disposable diapered) where I had to run to the store to get diapers. So I know it happens and we should at least consider a little bit of the cost in here. But maybe you are Ms. Ultra prepared and never have that happen!
Cost: FREE – $20
I would be a complete liar if I didn’t admit that there are cloth diaper addicts out there who have spent as much on diapers as those with disposables. Definitely true. So that’s worth considering. However, those people could still turn around and sell those diapers for up to 50% of what they bought them for. But still, it’s worth noting. So my estimates can’t include those addicts, just like my numbers can’t account for disposable diaperers who are addicted to buying cute clothes. It’s just a different hobby.
TOTAL HIDDEN COSTS (ROUGHLY!)
Cloth Diapers: $100-$850
Disposables: $520 – $900
Add that to the estimates for cloth diapers ($100-$400) vs disposables ($1500-$2500) and you are still saving a bunch of money using cloth diapers (assuming you don’t get addicted to diapers). That’s not to mention that the cloth diapers can be re-used, you can’t get back the money for disposable diapers. You can go to my calculator here to get a rough estimate of the not-so-hidden costs.
Don’t forget that you can turn around and use cloth diapers again on additional babies or, if you don’t have any more, you can sell them for about 50% of their retail value.
But remember my cousin I was telling you about? She really does a great job of finding disposable diaper deals. She fills out many surveys that give her cash and Amazon money so that she buys her diapers that way. Granted, you could use the same Amazon money to buy cloth diapers, but I wanted to give you a heads up on that option as well. My aim in this article isn’t to prove a point or convert anyone. I honestly don’t care what someone diapers their baby in–as long as it is something that works best of them. My biggest passion is in the fact that I think there is a lot of misinformation about cloth diapers and if more people knew how easy and economical they were, they’d make the switch.
Changing Diapers: The Hip Mom’s Guide to Modern Cloth Diapering by Kelly Wels
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* Numbers are for birth-potty training